Signs dating a loser

12-Nov-2017 11:00

If a girl doesn't approach or initiate contact with a shy man, nothing will happen.This is true, but handling this situation isn't as simple as you might think...I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.

So, in conclusion, if you are interested in a shy man, start by questioning that feeling. Though he knows his own limitations (as prescribed by his shyness), he also knows what a typical man is "supposed to do." So he recognizes, too, when you are doing it for him.This will offend him if you flaunt it, or if it is evident due simply to the social magnitude of the task you've assumed (for example, if you take his hand and lead him through a crowd).That offense will reflect negatively on you and the relationship.So be careful about how much (and which) initiative you take.

So, in conclusion, if you are interested in a shy man, start by questioning that feeling. Though he knows his own limitations (as prescribed by his shyness), he also knows what a typical man is "supposed to do." So he recognizes, too, when you are doing it for him.This will offend him if you flaunt it, or if it is evident due simply to the social magnitude of the task you've assumed (for example, if you take his hand and lead him through a crowd).That offense will reflect negatively on you and the relationship.So be careful about how much (and which) initiative you take.Once this happens, you will need to gradually assume a less assertive (more traditionally female) role, because he will then be more liable to get bored with you, wonder if he could do better, consider his other options (the perception of which his newly-found confidence will likely inflate), fool around, etc.