But now, I'm going to share with you the big secret that I've learned after 50 years - it doesn't matter that you are average looking. When I was your age, I was just as "desperate" as you sound right now.
People kept telling me that when you stop looking so hard, that's when you'll find someone. All they have to do is look at you for a few seconds and they can feel everything that you just told me in your Yahoo question. Instead, imagine that you walk into a room filled with attractive women and now you are this confident man that really doesn't care that much for chasing women because, women always chase after you. Even at age 50, I've socialized with 20 something women and they are totally attracted to me.
I have heard it all from girls I like: let's just be friends you're like brother to me I am not looking for a relationship your a nice guy but.... sorry if it sounds like I am whining but you would be discouraged too if you were in my position.
Wow, it's late at night and I couldn't resist answering your question because I've been there before.
This blog has come into existence because I’m working on a book for the nice guys out there who don’t want to believe that “nice guys finish last” but aren’t quite sure what to do to keep it from happening to them!
I don't even now how to handle all this rejection anymore.
The thing is, I'm 50 y/o now and when I was your age I had the exact same problem.
I would have described myself exactly the same way as you - not movie star material but also not the bottom of the barrel.
she is honest to your relationship by choosing to tell what she in thinking.
from the other side, it is a good chance to push you more intimately.
I don't even now how to handle all this rejection anymore.The thing is, I'm 50 y/o now and when I was your age I had the exact same problem.I would have described myself exactly the same way as you - not movie star material but also not the bottom of the barrel.she is honest to your relationship by choosing to tell what she in thinking.from the other side, it is a good chance to push you more intimately.I don't even ask a girl out if I don't feel like I made a connection with her and gotten to know her pretty good.